Ukwamukela ikati kungaba esinye sezinqumo ezivuza kakhulu empilweni yakho. Nokho, kuphakama umbuzo obalulekile: Iyiphi iminyaka engcono kakhulu yokuthola ikati? Impendulo ayilula, ngoba incike ezicini ezihlukahlukene ezifana nendawo yomndeni, isikhathi esitholakalayo nezici zekati. Lapha sikunikeza umhlahlandlela ophelele wokukusiza wenze isinqumo esingcono kakhulu.
Ngaphambi kokuthola ikati
Ikati aliyona ithoyizi noma imfashini; Uyisidalwa esiphilayo esizoncika kuwena ukuze unelise izidingo zaso. izidingo eziyisisekelo y ngokomzwelo kukho konke ukuphila kwakhe. Iminyaka yokuphila kwekati ingafinyelela eminyakeni engama-20 uma inakekelwa kahle, okusho ukuzibophezela kwesikhathi eside.
Ngaphambi kokuthatha ingane, qiniseka ukuthi wonke umndeni uyavuma. Yena imvume Kubalulekile ukugwema izingxabano ezizayo noma ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi ikati lishiywe. Izinqumo ezisheshayo, njengokwamukela ikati njenge Isipho sikaKhisimusi, ngokuvamile baphelela ezindaweni zokukhosela noma, esimweni esibi kakhulu, isilwane sishiywe emgwaqweni.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, cabanga nge- propósito yokutholwa. Ikati akufanele libonwe njenge-whim. Uma unezingane, kubalulekile ukubachazela ngemithwalo yemfanelo ehambisana nokunakekela isilwane. Uma kungenjalo, ukuphilisana kungase kube nzima kubo bobabili ilungu elisha nomndeni.
Ikati lingamukelwa eminyakeni emingaki?
Uma isinqumo sokwamukela senziwe, umbuzo uphakama mayelana ne iminyaka ekahle wekati. Kubalulekile ukwazi umehluko ekunakekelweni nasekuziphatheni phakathi kwe ikati elincane futhi a ikati elidala ukwenza isinqumo esinolwazi.
Kitten
Ukutholwa kwekati kungaba yinto enhle kakhulu, kodwa futhi kuyinto inselele. Amakati akhuthele futhi anelukuluku lokufuna ukwazi, okusho ukuthi azodinga ukunakwa njalo ukuze agweme izingozi. Ukwengeza, lesi yisikhathi esifanele sokubafundisa.
Ikati lingase lihlukaniswe nini nonina? Ochwepheshe batusa ukulinda kuze kube yilapho izinyane lekati okungenani libe namaviki angu-8 ubudala, okungamaviki angu-12. Ngalesi sikhathi, izinyane lekati liyafunda amakhono omphakathi okubalulekile, njengokusebenzelana ngaphandle kokuluma noma ukunwaya, ngenxa kanina kanye nozakwabo.
Ikati elikhula lihlukene nonina kusenesikhathi lingase libe nezinkinga zokuziphatha, njenge ulaka o ukwesaba ngokweqile. Ukwengeza, phakathi namasonto okuqala, ubisi lwebele lubalulekile ukuze uqinise amasosha akho omzimba.
Ezimweni ezingavamile, njengokulahlwa ngumama, kungenzeka ukuthola ikati ngaphambi kwamasonto angu-8. Kulokhu, kufanele unakekele ukuyondla ngefomula futhi ulandele ngokuqinile imiyalelo kadokotela wezilwane.
Ikati labadala
Ukwamukela ikati elikhulile nakho kunoko izinzuzo. Nakuba abaningi bekholelwa ukuthi ikati elikhulile linzima kakhulu ukuzivumelanisa nalo, iqiniso lingase lihluke. Amakati amadala avame ukuzola futhi abe ne ubuntu obuchaziwe, okwenza kube lula ukubona ukuthi izongena yini endlini yakho.
Ukwengeza, ngokuthatha ikati elikhulile, unikeza a ithuba lesibili esilwaneni okungenzeka ukuthi sidlule ezintweni ezinzima njengokulahlwa. Ngesineke nangothando, ikati elikhulile lingaba nothando futhi libe nobudlelwane njengekati.
Uma unquma ukuthatha ikati elihlukunyeziwe, kubalulekile ukulihlinzeka ngendawo ezungezile ukuthula. Gwema imisindo ephezulu nokunyakaza okungazelelwe phakathi namasonto okuqala, okumvumela ukuthi azijwayeze ikhaya lakhe elisha ngejubane lakhe.
Umthelela wokulunyulwa ekuthathweni
El ukulunyulwa Yinkathi ebalulekile ekukhuleni kwekati. Emasontweni ambalwa okuqala, amakati ancike ngokuphelele kuwo ubisi lwebele ukuthola imisoco edingekayo. Ukulumula kuqala cishe emasontweni angu-4 ubudala, lapho amakati eqala ukudla ukudla okuqinile, kodwa akuqedi kuze kube amasonto angu-8 noma ngaphezulu.
Kusukela emavikini lasi-8 kuye phambili, emakati alungele kutsatfwa, njengobe akwati kuphakela wona futsi afundze ukuziphatha okuyisisekelo. Nokho, ukubashiya nonina kuze kube amasonto angu-12 kungathuthukisa kakhulu ukuhlalisana kwabo.
Ukunakekelwa okuyisisekelo ngemva kokutholwa
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unquma ukuthatha kitten noma ikati elikhulile, kukhona okuqinisekile ukunakekelwa okuyisisekelo okufanele ukucabangele ukuze uqinisekise inhlalakahle yabo.
- Vakashela udokotela wezilwane: Kubalulekile ukuyisa ilungu elisha kudokotela wezilwane ukuze liyohlolwa ngokuphelele, likhishwe izikelemu kanye nokugonywa. Bazokweluleka nangokudla okunomsoco kanye nokunakekelwa okuqondile.
- Indawo ephephile: Nikeza ngendawo ethulile lapho ikati lakho lingalungisa khona. Kufaka umbhede onethezekile, ukudla, amanzi kanye nethreyi likadoti.
- Isikhathi nokubekezela: Ukuzivumelanisa nezimo kungathatha isikhathi. Yiba nesineke futhi uhloniphe ijubane lekati lakho ukuze lizizwe likhululekile ekhaya lalo elisha.
Ukwamukela ikati kuwukuzizwisa okugcwele uthando nokufunda. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi izinyane lekati elithandekayo noma ikati elikhulile elihlakaniphile, kokubili kuzokunikeza izikhathi ongasoze wazikhohlwa kanye nobungane obungenamibandela. Ukwenza lesi sinqumo ngokuqaphela kuyisihluthulelo sokwakha ubuhlobo obunempilo nobuhlala njalo nesilwane sakho esisha.
Sawubona Agustin.
Ayikho iminyaka ebekiwe. Lapho umuntu ekwazi ukunakekela ikati, lapho bengakwazi ukulibhekela lona futhi banakekele nezindleko zalo, lokho kuzoba isikhathi sokulamukela.
A ukubingelela.
Banginikeza u-furry wami 3 noma 4 amaviki adlule angimtholanga yena wangithatha, wayeyikati ejabule eyasinika uthando oluningi Wahlala neminyaka eyi-14 nathi emavikini amabili edlule Wafa sishoda kakhulu amakati asinikeze uthando oluningi yebo siyazi ukuthi singabafundisa kanjani kufanele sibekezele kakhulu, imikhonzo evela ku-los angeles ca, usa
Sawubona Rudy.
Ngiyaxolisa ngokulahlekelwa ikati lakho 🙁
Njengoba usho, banikeza uthando oluningi nenkampani futhi lapho behamba ... kubi kakhulu.
Isikhuthazo esiningi.
Ikati lami lihlale iminyaka eyi-16, zizilwane ezizimele kakhulu futhi ezinothando kakhulu, zifunda ngokushesha okukhulu, kimi ngamenza wazilimaza, ngoba njalo lapho ngivuka ngithanda ukuya emsebenzini u-7 ngangimnika ibhulakufesi ipuleti elihle inyama noma inkukhu kanti ngempelasonto wenza sengathi udla isidlo sasekuseni ngaleso sikhathi. Ngeshwa udlule emhlabeni ephethwe yisifo sikashukela. Izinyane lekati lokugcina lahlala ezinyangeni eziyisishiyagalombili kuphela lapho ngangimthumele kuNeutered lashona ngokushesha nje lapho linikezwa i-anesthesia, lalinempilo enhle futhi lisesimweni esihle kakhulu. Manje senginovalo lokuthena, angazi ukuthi ngizokwenzenjani uma nginezinye izinyane lekati
Sawubona Beatriz.
Kuyadabukisa kakhulu okwehlele ikati lakho 🙁 Ngaphambi kokuthena, kufanele ulinganise isilwane ukwazi ukuthi sidinga i-anesthesia engakanani. Ngakho-ke azikho izinkinga ezivelayo.
Ngithe, ngiyaxolisa futhi ngikhuthazwa kakhulu.
Sawubona Monica, ngithathe amazinyane amabili ezinyanga ezingaba ngu-4. Umvikeli ubathole emgwaqweni futhi kubonakala kimi ukuthi bake baba nokuhlangenwe nakho okubi ngabantu noma abanakho. Sebesekhaya isikhathi esingaphezu kwesonto futhi yize ngezikhathi ezithile bayaphuma bayodlala nokuthi njalo uma bengibona baphinde bacashe. Bangisaba kakhulu nesoka lami futhi kubonakala sengathi bafuna kuphela ukuthi sibanikeze ukudla… angifuni ukuthi bajwayele ukucasha emini baphume bodwa ebusuku noma badle…. Futhi ngifuna bazizwe ukuthi bangasethemba ngaphandle kokubaleka njalo lapho siwela omunye nomunye ... Ngiyethemba ungangisiza ukwenza okulungile noma namakati ami.
Sawubona Yvonne.
Ngincoma okufanayo neVerónica: ukubekezela okuningi, imidlalo nokubekezela okuningi 🙂
Banike amathini amakati njalo ngezikhathi ezithile, bese uzama ukuwaphulula (kube sengathi awufuni bakubone).
Kancane kancane uzozizuza, impela.
A ukubingelela.
UYvonne ungazama ukusondela kubo ngemidlalo, uthengele amakati ithoyizi bese uzinika isikhathi sakho sokudlala nawo uzobona ukuthi bathola ukuzethemba kancane kancane ungabacindezeli
Ikati lami lalihlala unyaka owodwa futhi laliyiKati elinobudlova kakhulu. Nginelinye ikati elisanda kuba nemidlwane futhi ladla i-placenta, kungokwemvelo?
Sawubona Ephreli.
Yebo kuvamile. Amakati adla i-placenta ukuze izidalwa ezingaba namandla zingakwazi ukuyithola noma izingane zayo.
A ukubingelela.