Kuthiwa izilwane (ikakhulukazi izinja nezinsikazi) ezihlala nomndeni zijwayele bathathe izindlela zokuziphatha kubanakekeli babo. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi bafunda ngokulingisa futhi bangochwepheshe bangempela ekwenzeni kanjalo. Amakati, naphezu kwemvelo yawo yokuzimela, awahlukile.
Uma uzibuza indlela yokwenza ikati lakho libe nothando kakhulu, usendaweni efanele. Lapha sizokunikeza uchungechunge lwamathiphu ukuze umngane wakho onoboya abe nothando kakhulu kuwe, noma okungenani, azibonise ngendlela eseduze, ngaphakathi komlingiswa wakhe.
Hlaziya uhlamvu lwakho
Isinyathelo sokuqala sokwenza ikati libe nothando kakhulu ukuzicabangela ngokuziphatha kwakho. Amakati ngokuvamile abonisa izimo zengqondo namandla emvelo yawo. Uma ungumuntu obandayo noma okude futhi ungachithi isikhathi sekhwalithi nekati lakho, kuyoba nzima kuye ukuthuthukisa isimo sengqondo sothando. Uma ufuna ikati lakho lisondele, kubalulekile ukuthi nawe usondele sondelana naye ngokomzwelo nangokomzimba.
Amakati, njengezingane, banikela ngalokho abakutholayo. Uma unikeza uthando, imidlalo, nezikhathi zokusondelana, maningi amathuba okuthi uthole okufanayo ngokubuyisela. Ungalindeli ikati ebelinganakiwe ukuthi livele liqale ukubonisa uthando. Kufanele uchithe isikhathi wakha lobo budlelwano.
Dlala naye futhi ukhuthaze uthando
Enye yezindlela eziphumelela kakhulu zokuzihlanganisa nekati iwukuba ukudlala. Amakati, nakuba ngezinye izikhathi abhekwa njengezilwane ezihlala zodwa, ajabulela kakhulu imidlalo esebenzisanayo ewavumela ukuveza umuzwa wawo wemvelo, njenge ukuzingela nokujaha. Chitha imizuzu embalwa usuku ngalunye udlala nekati lakho usebenzisa amathoyizi alingisa impatho yezilwane ezifuywayo, njengezinduku zezimpaphe noma amathoyizi anyakazayo.
Umdlalo awusizi nje kuphela shayela amandla akho ngendlela eyakhayo, kodwa futhi iqinisa isibopho phakathi kwalokhu okubili. Futhi, ngalezi zikhathi ungathatha ithuba lokumbamba lapho ekhululekile. Ubuhlobo obakhiwe ngesikhathi sokudlala bungabangela ikati lakho ukuthi lifune ukusondelana nawe ngisho nangaphandle kwesikhathi sokudlala.
Hlonipha indawo nesikhathi sabo
Kubalulekile ukuthi uqonde ukuthi amakati ayizilwane ezizimele kanye nezindawo. Ukuphoqa ikati ukuthi libe nawe, ukuliphulula lapho lingafuni, noma ukuzama ukuphoqelela ukuba khona kwakho kuzokwenza kuphela ukuthi i-feline ihambe iye kude. Kunalokho, yiba nesineke futhi zihloniphe izikhathi zabo nezidingo.
Ikati elizizwa licindezelwe noma lihlaselwe ukuphulula ngokweqile lizoba manqika ukusondela. Buka ulimi lwabo lomzimba: Lapho ikati liqala ukutshikizisa umsila noma libonisa ukungakhululeki, sekuyisikhathi sokulishiya lodwa. Isihluthulelo sokwenza ikati libe nothando kakhulu akukona ukuliphoqa, kodwa ukudala indawo ephephile lapho lizizwa likhululekile ukukufuna noma nini lapho lifuna.
Ukuqinisa okuhle kusebenza kahle kakhulu
Uma uqeqesha amakati kubalulekile gwema ukujeziswa ngokomzimba. Amakati, ngokungafani nezinja, awahlobanisi ubudlova obungokomzimba nokuziphatha okubi. Eqinisweni, izijeziso zidala ukwesaba kuphela, okungenza ikati libe lukhuni futhi liqhele kuwe.
Kunalokho, okusebenzayo ngempela yi- ukuqinisa okuhle. Isibonelo, uma ikati lakho linothando noma liphendula isilwane esifuywayo nge-purrs, sivuze ngokupha noma ukusiphulula okwengeziwe. Lokhu kumsiza ukuthi ahlobanise ukuthintana ngokomzimba nezinto ezinhle futhi, kancane kancane, uzofuna lokho kuxhumana njalo.
Ungameqisi: imingcele ibalulekile
Uma ikati lakho liza kuwe lifuna ukunakwa, kubalulekile ukuthi wazi ukuthi kufanele ume nini. Akukona mayelana gcwalisa ngokutotoswa. Uma ikati lakho liqala ukutshikizisa umsila ngokushesha noma likubonisa izimpawu zokuthi selanele (njengokusukuma nokuhamba), ungaliphoqeleli ukuthi lihlale noma lithole ukufuywa okwengeziwe kunalokho elikufunayo.
Amakati yizilwane ezikwazisa ukuzimela kanye nendawo yazo. Ukwazi ukuthi kufanele ume nini futhi uhloniphe leyo mingcele kuzodala umoya wokwethembana. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ikati lakho lizofunda ukuthi lingasondela kuwe ngaphandle kokwesaba ukuzizwa livaleleke, futhi lokhu kuzoqinisa ubuhlobo bothando.
Mnike isikhathi akujwayele
Akuwona wonke amakati anothando kusukela ngosuku lokuqala. Uma usuthole ikati elisha, kuvamile ukuthi lithathe isikhathi ukuze lizijwayele ikhaya lalo elisha kanye nawe. Phakathi namasonto okuqala noma ngisho nezinyanga, angase abonakale ekude noma ekhululekile. Yiba nesineke, mhloniphe futhi umvumele asondele kuwe ngejubane lakhe.
Uma ikati lakho lihlengiwe futhi livela endaweni enzima, lingase libe nalo ukuhlukumezeka okwedlule lokho kumenza angabathembi abantu. Kulezi zimo, kubalulekile ukumnika isikhala nesikhathi, futhi ungaphoqeleli ukusebenzisana okungase kubonakale kusongela.
Khuluma naye ngothando nangokuzola
Indlela oxhumana ngayo nekati lakho ibalulekile. Ngokuphambene nalokho abaningi abakucabangayo, amakati angakwazi ukubona iphimbo lakho futhi asabele ngendlela efanele. Gwema ukuklabalasa noma ukukhuza kanzima, ngoba lokhu kuzodala ukwesaba nebanga. Kunalokho, khuluma naye ngezwi elipholile nelipholile, enikeza amazwi esikhuthazo noma ukumane umbize ngegama ukuze azizwe ekhululekile lapho ukhona.
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ikati lakho lizofunda ukuhlobanisa izwi lakho elizolile nolwazi oluhle, olungasiza ukuthuthukisa isimo salo sengqondo ngawe.
Uma ulandela lezi zinyathelo, cishe uzobona ushintsho oluhle esimweni sengqondo sekati lakho, futhi kancane kancane uzoqaphela ukuthi usondelana futhi athande kakhulu kuwe.
Amakati ahlonipha labo abahlonipha ukuzimela kwabo. Ngokudlala, ukubekezela, nokuqiniswa okuhle, ngisho namakati agodliwe kakhulu angaba abangane abanothando.