Ikati akuyona inja. Lokho kucacile. Yize banezinto eziningi ezifanayo, njengesidingo sokuhlonishwa ngalokho abayikho hhayi ngalokho esifuna babe yikho, kukhona okunye ukwehluka okubaluleke kakhulu njengobuntu noma amaqhinga angafundiswa.
Ngakho-ke, ngemuva kokufunda le ndatshana uzokwazi ukuthi amakati afunda kanjani, ngoba ngale ndlela kuzoba lula kakhulu kuwe ukuqonda uboya (noma ubomvu, uma kunjalo) owabelana nobani impilo yakho.
Kuyini ukufunda?
Ngaphambi kokungena ngokugcwele esihlokweni, ake siqale sikhulume ngalokho esikuqondayo njengokufunda:
Ukufunda ukutholakala kolwazi lwento ethile ngokufunda, ukuzivocavoca noma ngokuhlangenwe nakho.
Ikati ungumqapheli omkhulu, futhi uhlakaniphe ngokwanele ukuhlanganisa izinto ezinhle kakhulu noma ezihlukumeza kakhulu uma zilusizo ekusindeni kwakhe ngenxa yememori yokuhlangana. Uma kuqhathaniswa, okwethu kuyi-episodic, okungukuthi, iqukethe imininingwane emayelana nokuhlangenwe nakho kwethu okwenzeke endaweni ethile nesikhathi, esivumela ukuthi sibe nesikhathi esedlule, isipiliyoni sempilo.
Bafunda kanjani?
Amakati afunda ngezindlela ezihlukile, okulandelayo:
Ukujwayela
Kubenza bazi ukuthi yiziphi izinto ezisendaweni yabo ezibalulekile nokuthi yini abangayishaya indiva. Kungukufunda okwenzeka lapho bevezwa kaningi ezimeni ezifanayo. Isibonelo: lapho sithola ikati kuyinto evamile okokuqala ukwethuka uma ezwa ifoni ikhala, kepha njengoba izinsuku zihamba futhi zifona kaningi, kancane kancane uzojwayela futhi kungekudala uzofunda ukuthi angawuziba lowo msindo kwazise akukho okwenzekayo kuye ngaleso sikhathi.
Ukuzwela
Ungakusho lokho kuphambene nokwazi. Isikhathi lapho, ngokwesibonelo, sithatha khona lelo kati silibeke phambi kwelinye ikati elingazi lutho ngalo. Kuzokwenzekani? Ngokunokwenzeka kuzoba khona ukububula nokufinyela, ngoba futhi kufanele kucatshangwe ukuthi lezi zilwane zinendawo enkulu; Kepha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ngokubakhombisa inhlonipho nokubathanda bobabili, cishe bazoba abangani (noma okungenani babekezelelane).
Isimo se-Classical
Kuyinqubo yokufunda ngenxa yokuthi ikati lifunda ukuthi ngemuva kwesibonelo, umsindo othize, kukhona okuzokwenzeka okuzothanda noma kungathandi. Isibonelo esivamile kungaba lapho ezwa simbiza ngezwi elijabule kakhulu, nelikhetheke kakhulu, bese simnika ikani lakhe alithandayo lokudla okumanzi. Uma sihlala sisebenzisa lelo thoni elifanayo (angazi noma amagama afanayo) futhi sihlale simnika lokho, uzosheshe afunde ukuthi lapho simbiza ngaleyo ndlela uzokwazi ukunambitha ukudla esingakuthandi imvamisa umnike zonke izinsuku.
Isimo sokusebenza
Yilokho okusetshenziswayo lapho ufuna ukuthi ikati liziphathe kaningi noma kancane ngendlela ethile. Isibonelo, ake sithi sihleli kusofa futhi ube naye phambi kwakho phansi ekupha okuthile. Ngokungazelelwe, igxumela emathangeni ethu.
Imiphumela engaba khona kulokhu kuphendula yilena:
- Umphumela 1: Okuthile okuhle kuyenzeka (ngokwesibonelo, uthola isikhathi sokutotosa).
- Umphumela 2: okuthile okuhle kuyaphela (ngokwesibonelo, siyeke ukumnika ukuphatha).
- Umphumela 3: kwenzeka into embi (isibonelo, siyayithatha siyibuyisele phansi).
- Umphumela 4: okuthile okubi kuyaphela (isibonelo, lapho sikhuphukela ethangeni lethu, akusekho emhlabathini obandayo).
Le miphumela kufanele isheshe noma ihlobane nokuziphatha isilwane ebesinakho ukuze sikwazi ukuhambisana nakho.
Ukuqashelwa
Kuyinqubo lapho ikati lifunda ukwenza umsebenzi ngokubheka omunye umuntu noma umuntu onoboya. Kuyindlela esetshenziswa amazinyane amancane kunawo wonke: ngokubheka umama wawo, ayazi ukuthi angazilungisa kanjani, ngokwesibonelo, noma ukuthi angahamba kanjani. Kuyasiza kakhulu futhi lapho sifuna ukubafundisa ukusebenzisa iscraper, ngoba uma besibona sigijimisa iminwe yethu ngale nto, kube sengathi sifuna ukukrwebha okuthunyelwe, bazosilingisa kungekudala.
Ziyini izinzuzo zokufundisa amakati?
Kunezinzuzo eziningi, njengoba amakati angafunda izinto eziningi, njengokuthi kanjani ungaklwebhi, ukuyolanda ibhola lakhe noma isilwane sakhe esigxishiwe bese usinika sona,… nokuzijwayeza ukuzivocavoca. Uma sibahlonipha, siyabekezela futhi sibanika uthando oluningi, noma yini kungenzeka.
Ngakho ngizokutshela yiziphi izizathu ezenza kube lula ukubafundisa:
- Bazokwazi ukudlala kahle, ngaphandle kokuklwebha noma ukuluma.
- Ngeke besabe angene esiphethweni.
- Uzokwazi ukuhamba ngemoto Ayikho inkinga.
- Bazofunda ukwenza izinto ezahlukahlukene (njengokushesha).
- Kungenzeka babe nomphakathi ngokwengeziwe.
Noma, kunjalo, akukona ukwenza abangane bethu abanoboya baphelele (ngaphezu kwanoma yini, ngoba ukuphelela akukho). Kuzoba nezinto esingeke sibe nentshisekelo yokuzifundisa (mina, ngokwesibonelo, ngiyaneliseka ngabo ukufunda ukungaklwebhi nokungalumi). Kepha, ngiyagcizelela, noma nini lapho sifuna ukubafundisa okuthile, sizokwenza ngenhlonipho nangokubekezela, futhi nangothando, ngaphandle kwalokho into esizoyizuza ukuthi bazizwe bengakhululekile lapho benathi.
Ngabe udinga olunye ulwazi? Chofoza lapha futhi uzokwazi ukuthi yiziphi ezinye izinto ezingafundiswa zona.