Ukunquma ukuthi ilungu elisha lomndeni lingumfana noma intombazane akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi, ikakhulukazi uma sikhuluma ngamakati asanda kuzalwa abukeka njengamabhola amancane entambo lapho konke kuxubene khona. Nakuba ekuqaleni zingabonakala zifana, kunemininingwane yokwakheka komzimba kanye nofuzo esivumela ukuthi sisuse noma yikuphi ukungabaza ngaphandle kwezinkinga.
Ungakhathazeki kakhulu uma kungacaci ekuqaleni, njengoba ukuhlukanisa ubulili bamakati kudinga isineke esincane, futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukwazi kahle ukuthi kufanele ubheke kuphi. Ngale ndlela, ukwazi lo mehluko akuyona nje indaba yelukuluku, kodwa kubalulekile ekuhleleni impilo yawo nokuqonda kangcono ukuziphatha kwawo kwesikhathi esizayo.
Isihluthulelo sokwakheka komzimba: Ungabheka kuphi?
Uma udinga ukunquma ubulili bekati, ikakhulukazi ikati elinenyanga eyodwa ubudala, umbala woboya awusizi kakhulu. Impendulo isendaweni yobulili. Isihluthulelo ukubheka ibanga phakathi kwendunu nomgodi wobulili . Kwabesilisa, lesi sikhala sibanzi kakhulu ngoba yilapho kutholakala khona amasende, kanti kwabesifazane izikhala ezimbili zisondelene kakhulu, cishe zakha umugqa oqondile.
Imfihlakalo yemibala kanye nezakhi zofuzo
Kukhona iqiniso elimangalisayo ngamajazi ekati elivame ukubangela ukudideka. Amakati e-Calico noma ama-tricolor (lawo anenhlanganisela yezimpawu ezimnyama, ezibomvu nezimhlophe), ezimweni eziningi, angabesifazane. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi imibala ebomvu nemnyama ixhunywe kuma-chromosomes e-X; njengoba abesifazane benamabili (XX), bangaba nemibala yomibili ngesikhathi esisodwa. Uma nabo bene-gene yomhlophe, sinekati eliyigobolondo le-tortoiseshell.
Manje, nansi into engalindelekile: abesilisa abane-tricolor bakhona, kodwa bangavamile kakhulu. Lawa amakati ane- anomaly yofuzo ebizwa ngokuthi i-Klinefelter syndrome , lapho lesi silwane sizalwa khona sine-chromosome ezintathu zobulili (XXY). Into edabukisayo ngalokhu ukuthi, ngaphezu kokuba nombala "wabesifazane", la makati avame ukuba yinyumba ngenxa yokukhubazeka ohlelweni lwawo lokuzala.
Umehluko wobuntu: Owesilisa noma Owesifazane?
Nakuba ikati ngalinye lihlukile futhi indlela elikhuliswe ngayo idlala indima ebalulekile, amaphethini athile avame ukubonwa ngokusekelwe ebulilini nasebuntwini . Amakati amaduna avame ukuzimela kakhulu futhi adlale . Aluhlobo lwabangane abajabulela ukuba bodwa kodwa abanothando kakhulu lapho befuna uthando. Ukudlala kwawo kuvame ukuba matasa kakhulu, kugxile ekuzingeleni nasekunyakazeni njalo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abesifazane bavame ukunaka kakhulu futhi babe nobudlelwano nabantu, yize bengaba nobandlululo noma babe nomona ekuqaleni. Abaningi bayazibuza ukuthi amakati abesifazane anothando kakhulu kunamakati angamaduna , njengoba evame ukuba abangane abafanele labo abafuna ikati elithanda ikhaya futhi elizolile, elijabulela intambama ephumuzayo kusofa, yize bevame ukuqaphela kakhulu ngezinguquko endaweni yabo.
Ukubaluleka kokuvala inzalo
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ucansi luyini, ukunqamula isilwane sakho kuyisinqumo esingcono kakhulu ongasenza. Indoda enganqamuki ingase ithukuthele, ingahlaliseki, futhi ikhathazeke kakhulu ngezifiso zayo zocansi, ize ilahlekelwe ngisho yisifiso sokudla noma ubuthongo. Kwabesifazane, ukushisa kubangela ukukhathazeka okukhulu, okuholela ekukhaleni njalo kanye nokungakhululeki okuvamile.
Ngaphezu kokuvimbela ukufuya amakati angafuneki, ukuhlinzwa kuvikela amakati ezifweni ezingathi sÃna njenge- ovarian cysts noma izifo zesibeletho. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ubuntu bokugcina besilwane sakho abuxhomekile nje kuphela ocansini, kodwa futhi nasekuhlanganeni nabantu kwasekuqaleni kanye nothando esiluthola ekhaya.
Ukuze unqume ubulili, vele ubheke ibanga eliphakathi kwe-anus ne-vulva noma i-penis, ukhumbule ukuthi amaphethini emibala emithathu cishe njalo abonisa abesifazane, ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka kwezakhi zofuzo. Futhi, yize abesilisa bevame ukuba matasa kakhulu kanti abesifazane bathanda kakhulu ikhaya, ukungavali kanye nendawo abakuyo yizinto ezizobumba ngempela isimo sekati lakho.
